Last night at Little League, I had one of those moments of clarity that come every so often when things are quiet.
It culminated in this tweet:
Thinking this is going to the summer of no excuses. My kids are not going to be happy with me.
#toodarnbad #paleo #limits
And after a little more thought last night, I realized it’s time to take a stand.
I’ve been so frustrated lately with all of the excuses – why teeth aren’t brushed…homework isn’t done…things aren’t put away…why attitudes are bad…the forgetfulness that’s really just laziness…and so many words that are unkind.
It seems like I hear a hundred different excuses a day.
And I’ve been really frustrated…
to the point that I ended up yelling “shut up” in the car yesterday on the way to a doctor’s appointment.
It’s been a rough year.
It’s been a long year.
We’ve allowed some really bad habits to develop.
But those are just more excuses.
We’re less than four weeks away from summer vacation – something I’ve been looking forward to – and I’m realizing if we don’t tighten up the reigns a bit, it’s going to a long, miserable summer. I don’t want a summer of XBOX 360 and tv non-stop, of complaining and laziness, of arguing and blaming.
I’m realizing that for any change to be permanent in a family, it has to start with mom and dad.
Because I am the queen of excuses – the kids come by their propensity for them naturally.
I didn’t exercise this morning because I didn’t sleep well…I didn’t sleep well because I didn’t eat well…I didn’t eat well because I was tired and stressed…I was tired and stressed because I didn’t eat well or exercise.
It’s an ugly circle that doesn’t do anyone any good.
Tom spoke on Jonah this past Sunday in church, and I was particularly struck by two things – God’s command to Jonah to just go and the fact that Jonah was down in the ship sleeping while it was sinking.
It’s time to wake up, and it’s time to go. Time to make changes and to hold myself – and my family- to a higher standard. I’m not sure exactly how to do it, beyond starting with prayer. I’ll share more, and if you want to join with us in the No Excuses Summer, please share. I’m hoping to have some definite goals up next week if you want to join in.
No more excuses.
No more laziness.
No more bad attitudes.
No more bad food.
No more excuses.